Struggling to connect with my partner during health challenges (30M)
I've been dealing with some ongoing health issues that make it difficult to maintain my wellness routines. Recently, I started a new supplement regimen that left me extremely fatigued for days. My partner was understandably concerned and kept checking in, but I found myself pulling away and avoiding contact.
We've only been together for about 6 months, and I was upfront early on about my health challenges. But now that things are getting tough, I'm questioning if this relationship is right for me. When I'm not feeling well, I find myself thinking about a former partner who seemed to understand my needs better.
I worry that my current partner doesn't really grasp the chronic nature of my condition. Their attempts at support often feel a bit surface level, like saying "You've got this!" when I'm struggling just to get through the day. I know they mean well, but it makes me feel misunderstood.
At the same time, I recognize that I tend to push people away when things get difficult. I'm not always the best at communicating what I need. Am I being unfair to my partner? Is it reasonable to expect them to know how to support me through health crises? I can't tell if I'm sabotaging a good thing or if we're just not compatible. Any advice on how to approach this would be appreciated.
