Seeking harmony: Balancing family dynamics and personal relationships on a beach retreat

Dear wellness community, I'm in need of some holistic guidance. My family is planning a beach getaway to celebrate a graduation, but I'm conflicted about including my partner of 5 years. He finds my family's energy draining and chaotic, which often leads to tension between us. In an effort to protect our relationship's balance, I initially discouraged him from joining. However, the allure of the ocean (a rarity for us landlocked souls) has sparked his interest. Now I'm torn between preserving the harmony of our relationship and potentially excluding him from a meaningful experience. I realize my approach wasn't mindful - I should have communicated more openly and considered alternative perspectives. Perhaps the healing power of the sea could help bridge the gap between my partner and family? I've suggested private accommodations or a separate beach trip for us, but he feels hurt and excluded. I'm seeking ways to restore balance and trust. How can I approach this situation with more empathy and wisdom? Are there any herbal remedies or meditation practices that might help us navigate this emotional terrain? I'm committed to nurturing both my family bonds and my relationship. Any insights on finding equilibrium in these complex dynamics would be deeply appreciated. Namaste 🙏🌊